Thursday, September 18, 2008

My Ordinary Life?


I am beginning to wonder if there is more to life than being a short order cook, making peanut butter sandwiches with the crusts cut-off on demand? And I wonder if I will ever see the bottom of the laundry basket? And if there is a meal, other than pizza, that my entire family will eat? I am still unwinding from not having a moment to myself yesterday, which seems to have left me completely unproductive. I can't seem to remove myself from my motherhood world into my alter-ego fantasy world. Which believe me, is much more exciting than slapping two white, high fructose corn-syrup free pieces of bread together with peanut butter and looking through grocery store flyer's trying to find the best deal on laundry detergent. Most days I look forward to meeting with my alter-ego to find at least "imaginary enjoyment" in my life, but today I seem to be stranded in reality, a.k.a. "writer's block." At this point, I may as well stick to where I will be most productive: in the laundry room.

Friday, September 5, 2008

School Daze


I am still trying to figure out what I am doing? There is a strange silence in my house. My head is foggy with memories of "me time" as I am strangely aware that I survived summer with my four children and now three of my children are back in school. This "time" I suddenly have seems overwhelming. Do I start training for my next marathon or do I finish my novel?

Important Note: My computer of a year and a half died this summer because it had a bad motherboard and of course I did not buy the extended warranty...blah, blah, blah, blah, blah! I was pretty depressed at first, but then I reminded myself "my motherboard" wasn't bad and I could write my book "Mark Twain Style" if that was my only option, aside from begging my twelve-year-old to borrow her laptop. This wasn't really something I wanted to do, because she got stingy about letting me use her laptop to check e-mail. In response to her stingy attitude about using her computer to check e-mail, I reminded her that I pay for the Internet which would no longer be available on her computer if I couldn't use it...yada,yada,yada! Well, now that she is back in school for seven hours a day, her laptop is free. Now if I can only find my way out of the fog!

I think I am stuck in the fog partially due to the fact the family schedule is so packed with activities, I am feeling brain overload (not to be confused with a "bad motherboard.") And then there is my husband, who keeps throwing out hints at how I should make on of those "artsy" calendars I usually make with every one's schedule on it, but to be honest with you, I am just trying to get through waking up at 5:45 a.m. and making three lunches on tea.

Another Important Note: I gave up coffee, in part to cut out my excessive spending at coffee establishments, but mainly to cut out my children's addiction to coffee house treats. Forget one coffee. Starbucks became Twentybucks with my brood of four and at Twentybucks a day.... you do the math- 365*20.... CRAZY! Now if only I started a savings account with that money.

As far as the "artsy" calendar my husband keeps telling me to make, I'll get to it when I am used to 5:45. Is that an oxymoron?

One Third and Final Note: If there is one thing my kids were good at this past summer (aside from fighting), that was sleeping in. 5:45 a.m. is coming way too quickly for me. I miss the days of rolling out of bed at 7:15 a.m. and sipping tea in silence waiting for my children to wake up between 8:30-10:00 a.m. Now I am stumbling out of bed, making tea, lunches, breakfast and getting out the door by 7:15. Yuck! But as I say that, I think I must be crazy, because once I have dropped my children off at school, I have what I lacked all summer: TIME. When will the reality finally hit me that after seventy-nine days of summer break, I can do what I want?

Tuesday, June 24, 2008

Why Can't We All Just Get Along?


Seventy days and counting.... "Why can't we all just get along?" Seems to be the catch phrase I hear myself repeating to my four children, but it is mostly directed at my three older children or maybe more like my middle two(as my oldest daughter has had a booked social calendar and has missed out on the sibling malcontent.)

Here is a recap of one incident. My five year old almost imploded with anger as he tried to run his sister over with his Razor scooter, causing him to have a further meltdown when I pried his Razor out of his hot little hands. As a mother, I felt I had no other option than to hold his Razor hostage, but in his defense, I felt his frustration with his sister, as she and her friend had been blatantly ignoring him all afternoon. Every time my son tried to get their attention or speak to them, the girls would look at each other and say, "Do you hear anything.... No, I don't hear anything, do you?" My son begged them to talk to him and when they didn't he got so frustrated that he finally decided to crash into his sister with the said Razor. I am a firm believer in "actions have consequences." Hence I folded up his Razor scooter and placed it on top of the stroller I was pushing. And as my son screamed at me, calling me "Mean mom!" I calmly looked at all the kids and asked, "Why can't we all just get along?" Then my daughter looked at me and said, "Duh, he's a weirdo boy." I decided not to waste my energy with a response, but gave my daughter the look that meant she was in trouble and if she if kept talking.... well, she just looked away and whispered something to her friend, who I already knew would not be coming over to our house for the next week.

How am I going to supposed survive seventy more days of summer if this incessant fighting continues? So far, my one solution has been to exhaust them physically. I have done this by spending the day at the pool or the beach. The results are: the kids come home, take a shower, eat like a pack of starved wolves and sleep a good twelve to fifteen hours, making my summer hours of 8:00 am to 8:00 pm work. Hopefully this will work for the next seventy days....

Thursday, June 19, 2008

75 Days and counting......


It has finally happened. The end of my vacation. School is closed. Teachers are busy celebrating their new found freedom and I am not sure what to do? I already did the math: 11+31+31+2=75 days until school starts again. I have 75 days to spend with my four children. I will try to look on the bright side, I can sleep in. In fact, today I slept until 8:00 a.m. Amazingly, my seven-year-old who could barely manage to get out of bed by 7:00 a.m. to leave the house for school at 7:25 a.m. woke up at 6:15 a.m. I kindly told her it was too early for breakfast. Then she pointed out the bright sun shining through the vertical blinds in my bedroom and I wondered what happened to the good old "Southern Californian June Gloom?" I then used this as an opportunity to establish my first summer law, that breakfast would not be served before 8:00 a.m., because of course I need every excuse to shorten the length of my 75 days of summer vacation with my children. My summer hours of operation will be between 8 a.m. and 8:00 p.m. Sounds fair to me. 12*75= 900 hours of mom on the job. I need the other 900 hours for myself. Am I being selfish? Maybe, but if business hours are from 9 to 5, then I am working four hours of overtime and I don't even get paid with the exception of a few "thank yous" and "your welcomes" (from my two-year-old son, who skips right over "thank you" to "your welcome.")

Just so you know, I am in for a long summer. My seven-year-old has already informed me that she is bored and she can't stand her life. She keeps whining, "Mom, what am I supposed to do? My friends are all busy and I am B-O-R-E-D." No not the dreaded word- B-O-R-E-D. What am I supposed to do? Start counting. Only 75 more days to go......

Thursday, May 15, 2008

No Excuses


Lately, I feel like my kids own my time (with after school activities, homework, play dates, the list goes on...) Friends have been asking why have you stopped writing? Or why have you stopped running (noticing the return of my hips?) I try to make no excuses as my creed is: There is always time, as long as you make time. So, why am I not making time? I have no excuse, but this is what I tell myself: I need more sleep or I have to make the beds or vacuum or I need to get back to my job as a chauffeur. I need to have a mental meeting with myself ASAP and get myself back on track. Summer is coming and I need to wear a bathing suit not a "Moo Moo." As for my lack of blogging, its hard to write a New York Times Bestseller and a blog at the same time.

Tuesday, May 6, 2008

Support My Walk


I am doing something really important to help other people, and I am writing to ask for your help. On Saturday, May 10th, I am walking at Orange County AIDS Walk 2008. Click on the link below to view my personal AIDS Walk webpage and sponsor my participation. While visiting my webpage, don't forget to sign my online Guest Book as I would love to hear from you! http://my.e2rm.com/personalPage.aspx?SID=1776469Any amount is truly appreciated and it is easy and secure to do... just follow the directions once you click on the link to my webpage.


Your tax-deductible donation will help prevent the spread of HIV and help over 8,000 people living with HIV/AIDS in Orange County. I hope that you will help me exceed my goals!If you can't give, but know someone who can, please pass this on to them! I would really appreciate it. If you would like to walk with me and raise money, let me know. I will be happy to show you how to sign up! When more people know about the Walk, even more can be accomplished in the fight against HIV/AIDS. We hope you will join us!


Thanks!

Liza Marchant

Cinco de Mayo: Fun Four All

One of the greatest joys of motherhood is watching children have fun, especially when they are my own. Last weekend, my husband, children and I went to the Cinco De Mayo festival in Max Berg Park in San Clemente. I had signed my husband up (or myself, depending on if my husband wanted to watch our children or make tacos) to help make Carnitas/Tacos at our church's booth. Prior to leaving for the event, my seven-year-old daughter whined, "The Cinco De Mayo festival is STUPID (a word I absolutely detest when coming from my children). My friend who went last year told me it was b-o-r-i-n-g (another word I detest)!" Did she really think she needed to spell it out for me? Honestly, I had no idea if the festival would be b-o-r-i-n-g or not, but deep down I was hoping that it would be fun, that by the end of the day my children would be thanking me instead of reminding me how I had once again failed to provide them with an action-packed, fun-filled day. I am sure somewhere in the motherhood manual, it states clearly that mothers are responsible for providing their children with fun-filled entertainment, ALL THE TIME!

My seven-year-old cried and complained the entire drive (six miles) from our house to our church parking lot across the street from Max Berg Park. My husband and I tried our hardest to ignore her, but in a moment of weakness, I did threaten to not give her the ten dollars I was planning on giving her, knowing full well that not giving her the money would really only punish me, because what could have been a fun day would not be fun, because she would not have any money to play the games, which would therefore make her day b-o-r-i-n-g!

We loaded up my two-year-old's stroller with wipes, water bottles, sunscreen and other necessities and then made our way over to the park. It was only 10:30 ( a half-an-hour before the start of the festival) so we did what we could do, walk around the park checking the booths out. The whole time my seven-year-old complained everything looked "stupid." I didn't even indulge her by responding, because I knew that would have only fueled her complaining. Sometimes I use motherhood wisdom to conquer a problem. I took great delight in pointing out all of the activities my five-year-old could do, and suddenly this tactic, silenced my seven-year-old. Out of the corner of my eye, I could see her looking my way, unsure what to say, and after a few minutes, she played into my hand, stating she could do the same activities her brother could do, once she had "her tickets."

After our "twice" around the park, we made our way to the ticket booth. The deal or should I say, steal of the day was 50 tickets for $20 (most games being one ticket). I was surprised by some of the prizes my children were winning, a Thomas the Tank train set and a Bratz board game. After further investigation, I found some of the booths were run by family assistance programs. I started to feel guilty that my children were winning prizes from family assistance programs. Didn't we have an abundance of unused toys at home, toys that had been deemed- b-o-r-i-n-g, more times than I could count? But just as I questioning whether I should allow my children to keep winning these better than average prizes with their tickets, I saw something that made me stop for a moment. I saw the twinkle in their eyes, the excitement as they played the games and were handed these great prizes. Then I noticed the grin on my two-year-old's face, sitting in his stroller, licking the lollipop or as he calls it "Boppop" his older sister won for him. I took a deep breath and enjoyed the moment. The moment the complaints had dissipated and my children were having fun. They were laughing and running from booth to booth, from the jump house to the climbing wall (which was free and invaluable throughout the entire day) and winning prize after prize. There was no more pressure on me to please to provide entertainment, they were having fun on their own!

After making taking the children around to the games, my husband and I set up camp at our church booth and while he cooked tacos, I sat under the tent with friends and my two-year-old who played with a "Jesus Saves Balloon" (a far cry from my own religious faith, the Episcopal Church), but if the balloon message works for others, more power to them.

My kids continued to run around with their friends and only returned to drop off prizes, eat food and show-off their body tattoos from the free face painting booth. My seven-year-old was grinning from ear to ear as she showed me her peace sign. When I asked if she was having fun, which my husband was sure she would deny if asked, she just shook her head "yes" laughing as she ran off for snow cones and another round of games. As I watched her run off, I felt completely satisfied as a mother seeing the joy that all four of my children were feeling. Happy Cinco de Mayo!

Friday, May 2, 2008

Check Out My Essay "Four Times is a Charm" at Mothering Heights







2nd Annual Mother's Day Online Anthology
A Sweet Treat for you and me !

Below are wondeful essays written by Moms that were invited to be a part of the Online Anthology. Please enjoy and don't forget to leave the author a note (just click on comment) in the area below her essay.






Entries by Title
Click on an entry title below to view the full text of that entry.
"A Short Course in Motherhood" by Cheryl Levi
"A Short Season" by Janine Boldrin
"An Ode to Ignorance: What I am Glad I didn't Know" by Cindy Morgan
"As Mothers, Can We Give Too Much?" by Donna Sullivan
"Because I'm the Mom" by Lisa Romeo
"Chasing Wishes" by Renée Y. Mercier
"Depression Tinged with Joy" by Liza Tobin
"Experiential Learning 101" by Mary Ann Ebner
"Four Times is a Charm" by Liza Marchant
"Hard Work and All" by Jennifer Martino
"If I Knew – Reflections of a New Mother" by Carly Miller
"If Only" by Ashley Jene Hartung
"Instructions" by Nicole Quinn
"It's Just Not About Them" by Tracee Sioux
"Journey to Perfection" by Myriah C. Boudreaux
"Metamorphosis" by Meenu Gupta
"Milo" by Elizabeth Whitemore
"My Time Has Come" by Tami Parker
"Never Normal Again" by Francine Weinberg Graff
"Notes and Candy Bars" by Ann L. Dunnewold
"Oh, the Mistakes I Would Make" by Louise Orlando
"Ordinary Mom" by Sarah Kelly
"Our Wonderful Time Vampire" by Hyacynth Filippi Worth
"Perfect" by Stephanie Snowe
"Right or Wrong Daisy" by Liz Santucci
"Sucker" by Amy Yelin
"The Essence of the Job of Motherhood" by Angie Donnelson
"The First Time Around" by Jessica Haney
"The Great Exchange” by Marcy Hello
"The Secret" by Edie Landis
"Untitled" by Lisa Hein
"Wearing the Ruby Slippers" by Cara McLauchlan
"Well Done" by Sharon Carvalho
"What I Know Now as a Mom that I Wished I had Known Before Giving Birth" by Sally Atwell Williams
"What do I know now that I wish I knew before I gave birth?" by Stephanie Cismoski
"Why I hate my husband" by Whitney Cicero

Tuesday, April 29, 2008

Announcing "The Mothering Heights Manual for Motherhood, Volume 1"








Real Moms Write about Motherhood in Debut Collection

"If motherhood did come with a manual, this would be it.” -Coast Kids Magazine

LAGUNA BEACH, CA, APR. 26 – The Mothering Heights Manual for Motherhood, Volume 1: What we wish we knew before we became a (short order cook, shuttle driver, laundress) Mother, a hilarious and poignant collection of essays on motherhood, debuts next month in time for Mother’s Day and summer reading. The book is a culmination of the 2nd Annual Mother’s Day Essay Contest held by Christine Fugate, the popular writer of the Mothering Heights column and blog. Twenty-nine essays and four poems were chosen from over one hundred entries from Israel, Germany, Australia, and thirty U.S. states. “I wanted this to be a celebration of motherhood – and for readers to laugh,” says Fugate, editor of Manual for Motherhood. “But some of the essays were so powerful, they had to be included. While we moms need to laugh, we can also use a good cry.” The essays and poems offer stories, contemplations and advice about what it means to be a mother. Highlights include the mommy drive-by, not making meatloaf, and parenting with a coffee can. Serious topics such as finding an adoptive child’s birth mother, raising a child with Down syndrome and recovering from post-partum depression are also featured. Among the contributors are Us Weekly’s film critic Thelma Adams and novelists Patti Callahan Henry and Patty Friedmann. Fugate, a film and television Producer, is excited to also include writers who have never been published. “I started writing my column in an attempt to understand motherhood. I wanted to publish women who are not professional writers –they write because they want to make sense of motherhood.” Additional essays submitted to the essay contest are featured online in a Mother’s Day Anthology at MotheringHeights.net.The Mothering Heights Manual for Motherhood, Volume 1: What we wish we knew before we became a short order cook, shuttle driver, laundress Mother, edited by Christine Fugate (trade paperback, $12.95 Mothering Heights Press, 2008) will be available May 11th at MotheringHeights.net and June 15th at Amazon.com and bookstores.

Monday, March 31, 2008

Cool Map of Catalina Course: Thanks to Fellow Marathoner "Jake"

Manic on Monday

Well, I survived Spring Break number one (my son, Sam's spring break from Montessori school) and I have one week with my three older children in school before Spring break number two (public school vacation for my two daughters)!!!! What's a mother of four to do with that time? Good question. I know the obvious answers... Drive. Cook. Clean. What I really need to do is Read. Run. Write. Reading being priority, because one of my book clubs is meeting tomorrow, April Fool's Day, and I will look like an April Fool if I can not participate in the discussion..... Of course I had ample time over the weekend to read the book, but instead I chose to slip into my OCD behavior and play Sudoku for hours in the evening, while my husband had a meltdown over a cable glitch that made it impossible for him to see the end of the latest episode of John Adams on HBO. Of course, I probably didn't help matters any by reminding him that "it was not the end of the world, and that the epsiode would be available on HBO On Demand by Monday...." But he wanted it then!!!! And I question my kids demanding behavior????

Okay, so today, I will not play Sudoku, I will read a "A Thousand Days in Venice" and will run and attempt to write. Wait, I am writing now, does that count? I better get going, because I have three kids to pick up from three different schools, a communion class, a confirmation class and dinner and homework and whatever else needs to be accomplished this evening and I have less than 30 hours to not look like an April Fool. Oh, shoot, "The Riches" is on tonight too and I still haven't watched the first two episodes of the season which are on my computer waiting to be viewed and our cable problem better be fixed or I will be the one crying about not having an episode NOW! READ. RUN. WRITE. No, I better RUN. READ. WRITE. Oh, I will do the best I can!

Wednesday, March 26, 2008

My Book Club Dilemma


I am now looking at the stack of unread books on my nightstand asking myself, why did I sign myself up for two book clubs if I can't seem to read the books? Last month I got lucky and one of the book clubs I belong to chose a book I read a few years ago, but aside from that, I have yet to read any of the assigned books, hence the growing stack of books next to my bed and on my dresser. Now I am questioning whether I am against assigned reading, which probably dates back to my school days and wondering, do I quit the book clubs or find a way to overcome my inability to read assigned material? How do I get over my book club dilemma? I mean, I really wanted to read "Eat, Pray, Love" when I saw it at Costco last year, but when it was assigned for both of my book clubs I never got past page 29. I enjoyed the 29 pages I read, but somehow, couldn't finish reading it..... Wait! Maybe this has nothing to do with assigned reading, but another problem. Maybe the issue is time? Maybe I don't have the time to read because I am too busy training for marathons, writing a novel and being a mother, which is the reason I joined the book clubs in the first place: to have a night off once in awhile. Now I just need to find a way to read the books.

On the Path to Victory!


I have considered all of the possibilities... I don't like 5k's. The race is too short and too fast for me. I am in it for the long haul. I have found my race. The marathon. Just as I have concluded with my writing, I am not meant to be a essayist, but a novelist. I have also concluded, I like creative freedom, to write what I want, when I want. Give me a topic and I shut down. I become ambivalent. I want to protest. I love creative control. Heck, I'll get write, I mean right down to it... I am a control freak. But lately it seems that I have settled as a finisher.... not a loser, not a winner, but a finisher. I have finished the tasks I have set out to do, but not won the race or contest. Now its my time. I have decided as of today, I will not be a settler. I will not just settle as a "finisher," but will strive to be the winner that I know I can be. I know what I must do. I need to push myself beyond my own self imposed limitations in order to finish my big race. I now know this, I can make 26.2 miles just as I can write 400 pages....that my fictional life is much more exciting than my Mother Lode on motherhood..... so now I am off on my own course, my path to victory!

Tuesday, March 25, 2008

It's Time to Rock 'N' Roll- In Preparation for My Next Marathon


It has been ten days since the Catalina marathon. I have had ten days of rest (with the exception of the ten hours I spent last week at Disney's California Adventure.) I am fighting the end of a four week cold, but my body is telling me I need to RUN. I am feeling this nervous energy that can only be attributed to my lack of movement. Now that I have completed 26.2 miles on one of the countries toughest courses, I want more! I want to be in better shape and be ready to "Rock 'N' Roll" down in San Diego on June 1st....... Time to start training. Time to run!

Thursday, March 13, 2008

The Catalina Course



The Ides of March Contest: Click on my link to Uberchik to enter the Contest


The March Littlesaint Loot jewelry contest is underway. Click on COMMENTS below and scroll down. If you do not have an account, click anonymous and leave your first name or alias in the white box. A winner will be chosen at random on The Ides of March. You will need to check on March 15th. The Italians start a little earlier than the Irish in March.Et Tu Brutus?




Designed and handmade by Liz Santucci.

Headline: Mama Lode is leaving for marathon, but not before leaving husband with a List!



The Short List (because I believe in you!)

1. 9:00 am 3/14- Drop Wife (Liza) off in the harbor.

2. 10:00-2:05pm- Free time with Jack= buy groceries for the house, which should include- Horizon Organic Milk, Eggs, Paper Towels (Bounty Select-a-Size) and Bottled Water (Don’t buy arrowhead.) Meditate and say silent prayers that the rest of our children will be in a good mood when you pick them up from school- Tessa 2:05, Sam 2:30, Em 3:25. Free time with Jack also means make sure the house is organized for the weekend. My idea of organizing is cleaning, yours may be planning activities to occupy your forty-eight hours with your four children. The good news- they will be sleeping at least 20 hours of that time.

3. Emily needs to be a St. Clements at 6:30 pm 3/14 (Friday) for the Youth Group Outing. Father Dan said someone should be able to bring her home, which means talk to someone about this when you drop her off. I recommend leaving our house by 6:00 p.m. to insure your arrival at the church @6:30 pm.

4. 3/14/08- Anchors Potluck Dinner at Diane’s House. If by this time you need divine intervention with the younger children, going to the St. Clements Potluck at Diane’s may provide you with some sanity and Diane has a way with children. She just needs to give them the “mother look from God.”

5. 4:00 AM 3/15 (Saturday) Get up and say a few prayers for your wife. Okay, I will be up, but you better just sleep. You’ll need all the rest you can get for Saturday.

6. 7-8:00 3/15/08 Our children should be waking up with the exception of our 12 year old, who will sleep as late as you let her. Which may depend upon how much you need her help. Remember I will never know if the beds were made…..

7a. Make sure Tessa is wearing her blue soccer uniform which is hanging up in our room. Tessa knows where it is hanging.

7. 11:10 AM Leave the house for Tessa’s Game at Moulton. Leave Discovery Drive. Make a Right on Selva. Make a right on Blue Lantern. Make a left on Stonehill. Right on Niguel. Left on Camino Del Avion. Crossover Crown Valley Parkway and the road becomes Pacific Island. Take Pacific Island until you get to Highlands. Make a left on Highlands and about half a mile up on the right, you will see the school zone, which is Moulton.

8. Pray you hear from the Wilson family, as they may have you over for a BBQ Saturday afternoon.

9. As for the rest, make it happen! I love you! Good Luck…..
I am staying at the Hotel Cat….. Wait, I am not giving you that information…… You have my cell phone number. Verizon works everywhere. I am sure the “Can you hear me now guy” checked it out! I love you. I know, I already said that.

P.S. I will find my way home, like all good mothers and wives!!!

Friday, February 8, 2008

Brain Clutter



The clock is ticking on the Mothering Heights "Mother's Day Essay Contest." There is a week left and I am really starting to wonder, will I finish? I have been so focused on my marathon training, my computer time has been minimal. I know I am making excuses. I finished my essay last year on the due date, hours before the deadline, but this year I made pact with myself to have it done early. Early means what in my mind? The day before.

My biggest problem is sticking to a topic. I think I like an idea. I write a few hundred words and then think its not worth writing about. I need some help. A muse. My children. Someone to inspire me to write something, anything at this point. Otherwise, come next Friday, all I will have is just a bunch of unfinished essays. I won't let that happen. Not me.

I will make a point to get writing this weekend. Maybe after my big training day on Sunday (14 miles). I will be too exhausted to do anything else. Right? All I will want to do is sit at my computer and write, right? I hope. I really need to focus, but my brain is cluttered with ideas. I need to focus! Just focus.

Mental Games: Marathon Training


I began to question my sanity as I was running, pushing 48 pounds (my 22 month old in a non-jogging stroller) up and down a hill for an hour and fifteen minutes. On the uphill climb my mind was telling me that I was torturing myself, on the downhill climb, my mind recovered long enough to think I could do it again, fifteen times, until finally it was over and I had a cool down two mile walk.

The cool down was great and I felt elated that I was one step closer in my marathon training program and I reminded myself I wouldn't be pushing 48 extra pounds during the marathon. I look at the 48 pounds as my drag. Kind of like, when swimmers wear an extra bathing suit and don't shave during training and then on the day of the big meet, they shave and wear paper thin suits, although I am sure its not the equivalent of 48 pounds.

I thought back to the time when I was on the swim team in college, and my coach handed me a 25 pound weight and told me to walk around with it. I wondered why he was making me do that? Then he told me to put it down and said, "Isn't that better. Now imagine if you lost 25 pounds, how well you would swim." I am not sure if that was a good thing or not. Telling me I needed to lose weight, but to this day, as I train I think about the extra pounds I am pushing with my son in the stroller and then I think about what a relief it will be when I don't have to push those extra 48 pounds as I am running up and down hills during the marathon.

The marathon is 36 days away and my mind is telling me, I will be ready. I will be ready. Even if just a few hours ago I felt temporarily insane running uphill with a stoller. I will be ready. I am not insane, I am just in training.

Tuesday, February 5, 2008

Krups "IDIOT MODEL" Toaster



My husband finally persuaded (more like forced) me to open the Krups Stainless Steel Four Slice Toaster that I received for Christmas. I was completely content with my Red Kitchen Aid Two Slice Toaster, but my husband complained it didn't toast well enough and why didn't I want to be able to toast four slices of bread at once for our FOUR children.


Okay, so now that the toaster is on our counter, my husband insisted on reading the instructions. We must have the Krups "IDIOT MODEL."


DO NOT


1. Do not immerse toaster in water or run water into the toaster. (Who does this?)


2. Do not operate toaster under or around any flammable materials. (DUH!)

3. Do not place the toaster in the dishwasher. (Do people really try this?)


4. Do not cover toaster chamber when in use. (Really?)


5. Do not insert objects into the toaster other than bread. (Okay!)



BEFORE FIRST USE

1. Remove toaster from packaging. (I'm sorry, I just can't go on!)



But for those of you who still need further help, when purchasing a Krups toaster, please make sure it says "IDIOT INSTRUTIONS INCLUDED."

Too Much Information


I just received an advertisement from Apple promoting their new ipod touch, the "Internet in your pocket" that's all I need. Don't get me wrong, I love my ipod, but having the internet available at all times??? I already feel like I spend too much time on my computer, writing and surfing the net. I can't imagine having it everywhere I go. That would be too much information at my fingertips. I can already barely remember the days when I had to use an encyclopedia or go to the library to find information or buy a newspaper to read the news. Internet accessiblity is great, but do we need to have everything in the here and now? It is pretty cool, though!

Monday, February 4, 2008

Fred or the Red Hoodie: The End of the Patriots Path Perfection



I thought I knew my friends. Two weeks ago my friend sent me an e-mail asking, "Are you having a Super Bowl Party, so we can come and mooch? I have a new dip recipe I am dying to try out!" I replied, "you can come under one condition, that your husband who was born in New York does not root for the N.Y. Giants." I called her later to make sure. She laughed and said, "Fred doesn't watch football. He could care less." So they were invited.

One Super Bowl and a major upset later, I found out, FRED did care. I am not going to blame him for the PATRIOTS' LOSS, but I have now come to the conclusion that even those who think that they don't care, ultimately do. When Fred arrived, I truly believed he would be more interested in the "Think Fun" games I pulled out to occupy his time during the sixty minute game that lasts three to four hours. I was sure he wouldn't even be paying attention to the game.

Come to find out he, not only was he watching, he was rooting for the underdog Giants. He felt the game was rigged. He was convinced the Patriots would ultimately win. He kept saying he wanted to see the Giants ahead for a little while, for the sake of the game. Keep it a close game, he kept repeating. Is that the voice of someone who does not care?

He got his wish. Oh, the game was close. Too close for my liking. And there was Fred, in my house, wishing for Giants to win. How could I have let this happen? I tried my best to distract him. I encouraged him to try the puzzles I brought out, but he kept watching the game. He kept wishing for a Giants victory. He got his wish!

In the end, I am not sure if it was Fred or Bill Belichick's "Red Hoodie" (How could he go and change his style for the Super Bowl? He needed the old gray hoodie! I said it first! At the start of the game!) that led to the end of the Patriots' perfect season? That is a question I will never know the answer to, but I can safely say the next time the Patriots are playing the Giants, I know who not to invite over to watch the Super Bowl. The person who did not spend an entire season, every Sunday and Monday watching the games leading up to the Super Bowl, because even those that say the don't care, FRED, do when it comes to rooting for their home team!!!!!!

And by the way, whatever happened to the dip?????

Friday, February 1, 2008

"Hannah Montana: One in a Million"



"Hannah Montana: One in a Million"
Rated G
Amazon $13.99
Reviewed by Emily Marchant (age11)











Who is the teen pop star sensation sweeping the nation? Why it’s Hannah Montana or should I say the now Miley “Ray” Cyrus (she recently changed her name). I am here to give you the details on her new DVD “Hannah Montana: One in a Million.” Hannah Montana fans, the DVD comes packed with four episodes from the second season, as well as a bonus episode of the Disney hit show “That’s So Raven.” Here’s the dish on the episodes and the special features.

The first episode, my personal favorite, is “Lilly’s Mom has got it Going On.” This episode is about how Miley and Lilly try and set their single parents up on a date, but end up in a fight when things don’t go the way they hoped. Isn’t that always the case? Best friends should never let their parents date. Special guest star, Heather Locklear, plays Lilly’s mom.

The second episode stars the hit pop group, The Jonas Brothers. In this episode, The Jonas Brothers ask Miley’s dad to write a song for their band. When Miley finds out her father is going to write a song for them, she becomes jealous, so she and Lilly dress up as “Milo” and “Otis” and try and convince them not to have Miley’s dad write the song for them.

The third episode is about Miley winning an award. She invites her Aunt Dolly and Aunt Mama to come, but when they do, they get in a big fight over an old feud. Here’s a hint: It had to do with Elvis. The final episode is about Miley getting jealous about a movie that her on again off again crush, Jake Ryan, is filming with female star Mikayla.

The special features were great! I enjoyed watching the music videos “One and a Million” and “True Friend,” but the special feature I enjoyed the most was “The Top Ten Disney Character Feuds.” In this special feature, Disney names the biggest feuds between characters, like Zack and Cody, The Jonas Brothers and Hannah Montana and Hannah and Mikayla.

All and all this is a great DVD to own. I enjoyed watching it with my family. I recommend this as a gift for any Hannah Montana fan.


I give it 9 out of 10 Binkies

There's Always Tomorrow


Twelve miles was on the marathon training schedule for today, so what happens when you approach the twelve mile mark and you are still a mile away from the finish line (a.k.a. my house)? The twelve mile training day becomes a half-marathon. By the time I made it home, the only thing I felt like doing, besides downing 32 ounces of water, was climbing into a super hot bathtub. As for the rest of my day, I wish I could say this would be the perfect time to sit at my computer and finish a certain essay that is now due two weeks from today, but all my body wants to do is lie down on the couch and take a nap in this rainy weather. Yesterday I made a colorful calendar, today I finished a half marathon and tomorrow.... Yes, tomorrow I will write that essay or my New York Times Bestseller. Why be an over achiever, when I can just achieve. One step at a time. There's always tomorrow.....

It's Business Time!


No procrastination tactics today! First order of business: a twelve mile training session that will begin as soon as my training partner arrives, which should be any minute. As for the rest of my day, I will let you know after the twelve mile training session, but I am sure there is a shower in my future!

Thursday, January 31, 2008

Procrastination Tactics














This is how I waste my time when I have a long to-do list. I make a schedule. I won't even tell you how much time I wasted cutting and pasting letters from magazines to make this homemade calendar look like a ransom note. I am at the end of a "cold" and I am tired and I needed something to do to keep me from doing what I actually needed to do today. Well, it worked. This is what I have to show for my time well spent! A lovely calendar!

Tuesday, January 29, 2008

"The Aristocats"


Directed by Wolfgang Reitherman
With the Voices of Phil Harris, Eva Gabor, Liz English, Gary Dubin, Dean Clark, Sterling Holloway, Roddy Maude-Roxby, Scatman Crothers and Paul Winchell.
Walt Disney Home Entertainment
Rated G
Amazon $19.99 (available 2/5/08)
Reviewed by Liza Marchant



As I am singing “Everybody Wants to Be a Cat” with my five and seven year olds, my eleven year old clears her throat, and reminds me, I don’t like cats. “Mom, you hate cats, why would you want to be a cat?” Okay, so maybe I dislike cats (hate is a very strong word that I may have used once in front of my children when describing how I felt about cats, shame on me), but leave it to “The Aristocats,” a Disney Classic from my generation, to consider the possibility of loving a posh pussy like “Duchess” and her three adorable kittens, Berlioz, Toulouse and Marie. Did I say adorable? Oh, how they make a purr-fect feline family, who live an idyllic life in Paris with their owner Madame Adelaide. So idyllic, that Madame Adelaide plans to leave her worldly fortune to them. This somehow seems to parallel a real life heiress who recently left millions of dollars to a dog named “Trouble.” I wonder if she got the idea from “The Aristocats?”

Unfortunately, for Madame Adelaide, her butler Edgar overhears her plans to leave her fortune to her feline friends and decides its time for the cats to meet with an accident. After poisoning their food, he drives the cats off to the countryside and tosses them in a river. Of course, aside from “Bambi,” what Disney movie begins with tragedy? The posh cats survive and are soon befriended by the Irish, crooning, alley cat, J. Thomas O’Malley. He loves serenading the ladies with songs about himself, until he finds himself falling for “Duchess.” O’Malley assists Duchess and her kittens in their return to Paris to their beloved owner with a few adventures on the way, which brings me back to my favorite part of the movie, when the jazz inspired cat band plays “Everybody Wants to Be a Cat.” In reality, this is complete nonsense, because who in their right mind would want to be a cat? I suppose if you were heir to a fortune. Not. What would that get a cat anyway? High end cat food, heavy cream, the world’s finest cat nip and a diamond studded collar?

All in all, my children and I agree, “The Aristocats” transcends the generation gap and makes this Disney classic worth owning. Even if you don’t like cats, the music will get your feet tapping and make you believe for a moment, “Everybody Wants to Be a Cat!”
My children enjoyed the DVD extras, especially the “Virtual Kitten Game.”

I give it 9 out of 10 binkies. (Sorry cats, no 10 from me)

Friday, January 25, 2008

LOST Returns!


I am all prepared for the return of my favorite prime time television show, "LOST," on Thursday, January 31. At this point all of my other shows have run out of new episodes or they are off air at the moment. As of late, it seems the quality of television shows has gone down the tubes, pun definitely intended, with all of this reality television. As of now, there are very few shows that I watch on the major networks (NBC, ABC, CBS and FOX.) I am finding more and more winners on cable television.


Here are my favorites (in no particular order):


1. The Riches on FX

2. Mad Men on AMC

3. Big Love on HBO

4. Flight of the Conchords on HBO

5. LOST on ABC

6. Football Night in America or Sunday Night Football on NBC

7. Anthony Bourdain: No Reservations on thr Travel Channel

8. Bizarre Foods with Andrew Zimmern on the Travel Channel

9. Brothers and Sisters on ABC

10. Inside the NFL on HBO

My Weekend at a Glance or Should I Say the Rest of January!


1. Work on MH Essay

2. Fight the beginning of a COLD

3. Make Chef Tyler Florence's "Ultimate Lasagna," "Broccoli Rabe," and "Semi-Freddo with Pomegranate Molasses and Salted Caramel"

4. Write a Review BVHE and Disney for the Upcoming Release of the New Digitally Remastered "The Aristocats"

5. Church

6. More Training for the Catalina Marathon

7. Continue writing My New York Times Bestseller

8. Mentally Prepare for the Return of "Lost" on 1/31/08


Wait, where did January 2008 go???????

Thursday, January 24, 2008

176 Items= Another Mother Lode of Groceries




6 Organic Bananas
Bambino Pepperoni Pizza
Giotto's Bambino Cheese Pizza
Have Your Espresso And Eat it Too!
2 Strawberry/Banana 6 pk yogurt
White Handmade Tortillas 6 pk
French Onion Soup
Frozen Chocolate Croissants
2 Dozen Cage Free Eggs
Shredded Three Cheese Blend
1lb Salted Butter Quarters
1lb Unsalted Butter Quarters
2 Packages Applewood Smoked Bacon
Sliced White Mushrooms
Organic Tortilla Chips
Almond Cranberry Trex Mix
Tropical Blend Carrot Juice
Cranberry/Raspberry Juice
Trader Joe's Banana Bread
Vanilla Bean Cake Mix
Fresh Blueberries
2 Packages of Strawberries
Trimmed Green Beans
#5 Box of Clementines
Trader Joe's Apple Juice Boxes
Men's Dep Hair gel
Gillette Men's Shaving Cream
Joy Ultra Dish Detergent
Ultra Concentrated Tide- 64 Loads
Cascade Lemon Gel Dish Detergent
Multigrain Tostitos
Regiano Parmesan
2 Quarts Ricotta
C&H Powdered Sugar
All Natural Ruffles
6 Pack Fat Tire Ale
Precious String Cheese
Ground Italian Sausage
Dreyers Peppermint Ice Cream
Dreyers Double Vanilla Ice Cream
Nature's Path Oatmeal
Canadian Bacon
Mrs. Richardson's Butterscotch Topping
Mrs. Richardson's Fudge Topping
4 Cans Organic Whole Tomatoes
Starbucks Coffee Beans
Ginger Snaps
White Cheddar Cheese
100 Count Ziploc Bags
Sea Salt
8 Emmi Yogurts
Yukon Gold Potatoes
1 Quart Heavy Whipping Cream
3 lbs Organic Onions
Ground Beef
2 bunches Broccoli Rappini
Fresh Oregano
Fresh Italian Parsley
Fresh Basil
Aquafresh t/Paste
Black Peppercorns
12 Pack Select-a-Size Bounty
12 Pack Scott Toilet Paper
6 Pack O.W. English Muffins
2 Packages Plain Goldfish
2 1lb Boxes of Lasagna
4 Cases Ralph's Water
5 1/2 Gallons of Organic Horizon Milk
2 Pints of Half and Half
2 Cans Pinto Beans
2 Cans Solid White Tuna in Water
3 Boxes of Eggo Waffles
Fresh Grated Parmesan Cheese
2 8ounce Philly Cream Cheese
King Arthur's Flour
1 Pint Sour Cream
1 Package Semi-Sweet Chocolate Chips
1 lb Mussels
1/2 Bay Scallops
1/2 Shrimp
5 Pack of Pampers Refills
3 Softsoap Soap Dispensers
Pantene Conditioner
Pantene Shampoo
Venus Razor
2 Skintimate Shaving Cream
10 pack Daisy Razors
Band-Aid
Ban Solid
2 Aluminum Lasagna Pans
Aluminum Foil
3 pack Kitchen Towels
Sauve Kid Shampoo
Huggies Baby Shampoo
Zest Bodywash
2 8 ounce Packages of Tillamook Cheddar Cheese
2 packages Ground Turkey
2 Lbs Organic Chicken Breast
2 packages reduced fat Wheat Thins
1 package OB
Grape Nut Trail Mix Cereal
1 Bunch Celery
1 Bunch Carrots
Fig Flat Bread Pizza
Yellowtail Merlot
Yellowtail Chardonnay
Laura Scudder's All Natural Peanut Butter
Chocolate Almond Breeze
4 Pack GUS All Natural Ginger Ale
Ian's Breadcrumbs
Artichokes
2 Boxes Nutrigrain Bars

















Wednesday, January 23, 2008

No More Excuses


I guess I am not the only mother lagging on my Mothering Heights Mother's Day Essay. I just checked out the daily slog at MH and there's an essay shortage. Somehow my husband ended up with the morning off, so I have no excuses (meaning no 21 month old to watch), I have time.... but I am sure there's something that needs to be done, beds to be made, laundry, vacuuming, next year's Christmas shopping..... NO MORE EXCUSES!!!!

Tuesday, January 22, 2008

Parallel Thinking: Mother-in-Training


All it took was a phone call from my marathon companion, Linda, to tell me she was too tired to do hill-repeats, for me to say, "No problem. I didn't really want to do them either." And as I hung up the phone, I realized there was a parallel to "my stressay" problem. I must do hill-repeats. Hill-repeats are necessary in my marathon training program. I need those hill-repeats to perform in the marathon. Just like that 1500 word essay for Mothering Heights. I must complete that assignment, because it is the smaller writing assignments that train me for writing my New York Times Bestseller. I am in training as a runner and a writer and while I am at it, as mother, because truly, motherhood requires constant training. By George, I think I've got it! The answer to "my stressay." What I will write! I have the answer to "What I know now that I wish I had known before becoming a parent." Oh, the parallels. Thank you! Thank you! Thank you!

With a Face Like This Anything Goes Mismatched


















Only someone who is seven and this cute can pull off wearing an outfit of green and brown camouflage pants, a pink floral shirt, a red sweatshirt, pink polka dot socks and light blue, laceless, converse tennis sneakers. I hope her teachers know she chooses her own outfits.

Monday, January 21, 2008

His Own Words: To Honor Martin Luther King, Jr.


Happy Martin Luther King, Jr. Day! He had a dream and I am sure it was not for people to be getting a great deal on a new mattress or a new car. But, sadly, that is what Martin Luther King, Jr. Day has become in our country. Another holiday for consumerism. At least for the people who have the day off, which is mainly school children and federal employees, but what about the rest of the business world? Do they stop to honor Martin Luther King, Jr.? In our fast paced society, I would say not. People forget.

I, however, was fortunate enough to attend a Peace Mass in honor of Dr. Martin Luther King, Jr. on Sunday at my church and be reminded of what Martin Luther King, Jr. represents to our country. I have to admit, on my way to church I was not thinking about Martin Luther King, Jr. I was busy thinking about Tom Brady and the rest of the New England Patriots. All that was on my mind was the AFC Championship Game and saying prayers for the Patriots to win. How sad to admit, but that is the truth. I was thinking about football and it wasn't until I arrived at church and received the program for the service that I was reminded of Martin Luther King, Jr.

A mass "In Honor of Martin Luther King, Jr." In all of my years, I have never attended such a mass and on this day I found myself staring at the cover of the program, at the picture of the man I would be honoring, Martin Luther King, Jr. Most Americans, at some point in their lives have heard the words, "I have a dream....." but do people really know what precedes those words as well as what follows? Do people really understand the message?

During the sermon by fellow parishioner, Mr. Earl "Duke" Welliver, I was moved by the way he honored Martin Luther King, Jr. by honoring other freedom fighters through out history. And as I was listening to him speak, I was reminded of who Martin Luther King, Jr. was and "his dream." Now, I am encouraging you to read the words he spoke and remember him, not for providing Americans with another day to get a great deal on a car or mattress, but for being a spiritual leader who fought for freedom as a matter of principle not political convenience.




The following is the exact text of the spoken speech, transcribed from recordings.


I am happy to join with you today in what will go down in history as the greatest demonstration for freedom in the history of our nation.
Five score years ago, a great American, in whose symbolic shadow we stand today, signed the Emancipation Proclamation. This momentous decree came as a great beacon light of hope to millions of Negro slaves who had been seared in the flames of withering injustice. It came as a joyous daybreak to end the long night of their captivity.
But one hundred years later, the Negro still is not free. One hundred years later, the life of the Negro is still sadly crippled by the manacles of segregation and the chains of discrimination. One hundred years later, the Negro lives on a lonely island of poverty in the midst of a vast ocean of material prosperity. One hundred years later, the Negro is still languishing in the corners of American society and finds himself an exile in his own land. So we have come here today to dramatize a shameful condition.
In a sense we have come to our nation's capital to cash a check. When the architects of our republic wrote the magnificent words of the Constitution and the Declaration of Independence, they were signing a promissory note to which every American was to fall heir. This note was a promise that all men, yes, black men as well as white men, would be guaranteed the unalienable rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
It is obvious today that America has defaulted on this promissory note insofar as her citizens of color are concerned. Instead of honoring this sacred obligation, America has given the Negro people a bad check, a check which has come back marked "insufficient funds." But we refuse to believe that the bank of justice is bankrupt. We refuse to believe that there are insufficient funds in the great vaults of opportunity of this nation. So we have come to cash this check — a check that will give us upon demand the riches of freedom and the security of justice. We have also come to this hallowed spot to remind America of the fierce urgency of now. This is no time to engage in the luxury of cooling off or to take the tranquilizing drug of gradualism. Now is the time to make real the promises of democracy. Now is the time to rise from the dark and desolate valley of segregation to the sunlit path of racial justice. Now is the time to lift our nation from the quick sands of racial injustice to the solid rock of brotherhood. Now is the time to make justice a reality for all of God's children.
It would be fatal for the nation to overlook the urgency of the moment. This sweltering summer of the Negro's legitimate discontent will not pass until there is an invigorating autumn of freedom and equality. Nineteen sixty-three is not an end, but a beginning. Those who hope that the Negro needed to blow off steam and will now be content will have a rude awakening if the nation returns to business as usual. There will be neither rest nor tranquility in America until the Negro is granted his citizenship rights. The whirlwinds of revolt will continue to shake the foundations of our nation until the bright day of justice emerges.
But there is something that I must say to my people who stand on the warm threshold which leads into the palace of justice. In the process of gaining our rightful place we must not be guilty of wrongful deeds. Let us not seek to satisfy our thirst for freedom by drinking from the cup of bitterness and hatred.
We must forever conduct our struggle on the high plane of dignity and discipline. We must not allow our creative protest to degenerate into physical violence. Again and again we must rise to the majestic heights of meeting physical force with soul force. The marvelous new militancy which has engulfed the Negro community must not lead us to a distrust of all white people, for many of our white brothers, as evidenced by their presence here today, have come to realize that their destiny is tied up with our destiny. They have come to realize that their freedom is inextricably bound to our freedom. We cannot walk alone.
As we walk, we must make the pledge that we shall always march ahead. We cannot turn back. There are those who are asking the devotees of civil rights, "When will you be satisfied?" We can never be satisfied as long as the Negro is the victim of the unspeakable horrors of police brutality. We can never be satisfied, as long as our bodies, heavy with the fatigue of travel, cannot gain lodging in the motels of the highways and the hotels of the cities. We cannot be satisfied as long as the Negro's basic mobility is from a smaller ghetto to a larger one. We can never be satisfied as long as our children are stripped of their self hood and robbed of their dignity by signs stating "For Whites Only". We cannot be satisfied as long as a Negro in Mississippi cannot vote and a Negro in New York believes he has nothing for which to vote. No, no, we are not satisfied, and we will not be satisfied until justice rolls down like waters and righteousness like a mighty stream.
I am not unmindful that some of you have come here out of great trials and tribulations. Some of you have come fresh from narrow jail cells. Some of you have come from areas where your quest for freedom left you battered by the storms of persecution and staggered by the winds of police brutality. You have been the veterans of creative suffering. Continue to work with the faith that unearned suffering is redemptive.
Go back to Mississippi, go back to Alabama, go back to South Carolina, go back to Georgia, go back to Louisiana, go back to the slums and ghettos of our northern cities, knowing that somehow this situation can and will be changed. Let us not wallow in the valley of despair.
I say to you today, my friends, so even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the American dream.
I have a dream that one day this nation will rise up and live out the true meaning of its creed: "We hold these truths to be self-evident: that all men are created equal."
I have a dream that one day on the red hills of Georgia the sons of former slaves and the sons of former slave owners will be able to sit down together at the table of brotherhood.
I have a dream that one day even the state of Mississippi, a state sweltering with the heat of injustice, sweltering with the heat of oppression, will be transformed into an oasis of freedom and justice.
I have a dream that my four little children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.
I have a dream today.
I have a dream that one day, down in Alabama, with its vicious racists, with its governor having his lips dripping with the words of interposition and nullification; one day right there in Alabama, little black boys and black girls will be able to join hands with little white boys and white girls as sisters and brothers.
I have a dream today.
I have a dream that one day every valley shall be exalted, every hill and mountain shall be made low, the rough places will be made plain, and the crooked places will be made straight, and the glory of the Lord shall be revealed, and all flesh shall see it together.
This is our hope. This is the faith that I go back to the South with. With this faith we will be able to hew out of the mountain of despair a stone of hope. With this faith we will be able to transform the jangling discords of our nation into a beautiful symphony of brotherhood. With this faith we will be able to work together, to pray together, to struggle together, to go to jail together, to stand up for freedom together, knowing that we will be free one day.
This will be the day when all of God's children will be able to sing with a new meaning, "My country, 'tis of thee, sweet land of liberty, of thee I sing. Land where my fathers died, land of the pilgrim's pride, from every mountainside, let freedom ring."
And if America is to be a great nation this must become true. So let freedom ring from the prodigious hilltops of New Hampshire. Let freedom ring from the mighty mountains of New York. Let freedom ring from the heightening Alleghenies of Pennsylvania!
Let freedom ring from the snow capped Rockies of Colorado!
Let freedom ring from the curvaceous slopes of California!
But not only that; let freedom ring from Stone Mountain of Georgia!
Let freedom ring from Lookout Mountain of Tennessee!
Let freedom ring from every hill and molehill of Mississippi. From every mountainside, let freedom ring.
And when this happens, when we allow freedom to ring, when we let it ring from every village and every hamlet, from every state and every city, we will be able to speed up that day when all of God's children, black men and white men, Jews and Gentiles, Protestants and Catholics, will be able to join hands and sing in the words of the old Negro spiritual, "Free at last! free at last! thank God Almighty, we are free at last!"

Grocery Budgets from Around the World


After sending out the e-mail asking how much you spend a week on groceries, a friend sent me this. Interesting!


Italy: The Manzo family of Sicily Food expenditure for one week: 214.36 Euros or $260.11


Germany: The Melander family of BargteheideFood expenditure for one week: 375.39 Euros or $500.07


United States: The Revis family of North Carolina Food expenditure for one week: $341.98


Mexico: The Casales family of Cuernavaca Food expenditure for one week: 1,862.78 Mexican Pesos or $189.09


Poland: The Sobczynscy family of Konstancin-Jeziorna Food expenditure for one week: 582.48 Zlotys or $151.27


Egypt: The Ahmed family of Cairo Food expenditure for one week: 387.85 Egyptian Pounds or $68.53


Ecuador: The Ayme family of Tingo Food expenditure for one week: $31.55


Bhutan: The Namgay family of Shingkhey VillageFood expenditure for one week: 224.93 ngultrum or $5.03


Chad: The Aboubakar family of Breidjing Camp Food expenditure for one week: 685 CFA Francs or $1.23


I don't know about you, but right now, I'm counting my blessings!

My "Stressay"

Time continues to tick away on the Mothering Height's Mother's Day Essay Contest and I still have nothing. Every time I think about the question "What do I know now that I wish I had known before becoming a parent?" I get stressed out. How am I supposed to write my essay with all of this stress? It is becoming my "Stressay." Of course, the reality is, nobody told me I had to write an essay. In fact, I could easily say, "I am not writing one this year." There! I could be done with it. Just like that! I won't write one! So then, why do I not feel better? Because, there is this part of me that feels that in order to continue on my path as a writer, I must complete certain assignments. Having the opportunity to have an essay of mine published is just one more step ahead in being read by the public. So, while I can say, "No, I don't have to write this!" The reality is, I must write this essay. I must write this essay to become the writer I want to be "Period."

Saturday, January 19, 2008

I Just Need to Say This: The New England Patriot's Will Be 19-0


Tomorrow's the AFC championship game and I have tried to avoid reading articles about why the New England Patriots are going to lose to the "charged" San Diego Chargers. A teenager from my daughter's youth group even made a bet with me that the Patriots would lose to the Chargers. $5. I told him if the Patriots lose I will give him $10 and if the Chargers lose, well, he can keep his money. Obviously, there are no 100% guarantees in life, but I feel confident that the New England Patriots will be 18-0 after tomorrow's game at Gillette stadium.

Somehow in my attempt to avoid reading articles about why the Chargers will beat the Patriots, I inexplicably found myself drawn to a few..... mostly reminders of the times the Chargers have beaten the Patriots, like back in 1964 (before the days the AFL played teams in the NFL and there was no Superbowl.) The Patriots had a great team back then and the Chargers shocked all the fans with a blowout victory of 51-10 and this compares to today's Patriots and Chargers AFC championship because the Patriots are on the verge of a perfect season and no one is expecting a blowout by the San Diego Chargers.

Okay, I just need to say this: There will be no blowout tomorrow by the San Diego Chargers. And in the less than one percent chance of a Chargers victory, it will be by only a field goal. All the congratulations in the world should go out to Billy Volek and Michael Turner and the other backups who led the Chargers to victory against the Colts in Indianapolis last week, but it won't be happening at Gillette Stadium. The road to a Chargers Superbowl ends in Gillette Stadium, because New England is on the road to 19-0.

Read all the history you want. So the Chargers of 1964 beat the then Boston Patriots. The teams are completely different today. And the same goes for the Chargers team in 2005 that came to Gillette stadium and beat the Patriots, 41-17. I read another article that was all about that game in 2005 and how this AFC Championship could be the revenge game of the century. The Chargers came to Gillette Stadium in 2005 and won and it can happen again! Here's a dose of reality, the New England Patriots of 2005 were seriously injured and did not have the offensive weapons of the 2007 Patriots like Randy Moss, Donte Stallworth and Wes Welker! And here's another dose of reality, Philip Rivers wasn't San Diego's quarterback, Drew Brees was. So where's the real comparison? There is no comparison. The End!